Senin, 22 Juni 2009

Love Advice - Who Should You Listen To?

I remember when I broke up with my boyfriend of seven years. It seemed like everyone that I came into contact with knew about it and started giving me love advice. You wouldn't believe some of the things I was told to do! The advice ranged from stalking my ex so that he doesn't forget about me to sleeping with his best friend to get back at him. Thankfully, I was smart enough not to follow these well meaning advisors. But I did wonder to myself, how many people do follow this advice? How do you know which is the right love advice to follow?

So I did some research and found out that the best love advice comes from those who have been there and done that. The people that have lost the love of their life and used psychological techniques to get their ex back. These people will be able to give you sound advice on what to do and what not to do. One of the things you shouldn't do is blame yourself.

It is easy when you go through a breakup to blame yourself. You will imagine that there is something horribly wrong with you and that is why he left. But unless you are truly a psycho, chances are the relationship went sour for other reasons.

People that are in a relationship for a long period of time get comfortable with one another. They stop dressing to impress. Romance is no longer something that is a top priority. They take each other for granted. After a period of time, the grass starts to look a little greener on the other side. Before you know it the relationship has gone downhill and a breakup is inevitable.

So when this happens and when you realize that your ex is the right person for you, then you need solid love advice that you know will work for you. Don't listen to your well meaning friends and family members. Get your love advice from the ones who have made it their passion in life to help others get their ex back.

This advice will be more than just helping you to get your ex back. It will also help you to understand yourself and help you to correct the mistakes that you have made in the relationship so that history doesn't repeat itself. With the right love advice you can have a strong, loving relationship with that special person that can last a lifetime.

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