Is There Unconditional Love? Love Conditionally

As much as people say love ends when you start having conditionals, i think otherwise. Actually, love ends when you stop having conditionals. Does it make sense, think about it. Once you stop meeting your partners conditions, like being home in time and doing things they like, the love between the two of you flies out of the window. Now isn't that conditional love? The only love that we can say is never conditional is parental love. No matter what your child does, you will still love it. Unconditional love is one where you love someone without looking at the things they do, where they come from or how they look like. Only then can you say to have unconditional love.

Many people before they get into a relationship make a list of things they would want their partner to have. For the girls the list could include, a car, a house, a nice phone and handsome and all this should be in one person. Without this, they cannot love the person. Without realizing it, they have already put conditions for their love and it ceases being unconditional love. They would rather be with a rich handsome guy who has houses all over the country than be with a poor man. Though the poor guy would have loved them better they cannot be with him. There are some ladies who say they would rather be in a limousine and cry rather than be with a poor man and smiling. Who wants to worry about money anyway, they reason. For the men, they want a submissive person, intelligent and beautiful. Isn't that conditional?

It is also generally believe that a poor person will more likely cheat on you than a rich guy. This is because most rich guys are too busy to have multiple relationship while the poor guy has all the time in the world. They would also make passes at women just to prove their manhood. With the many conditions that we give our partners, regarding the time they should get home and what they should do and not do we cannot say unconditional love exists. We might hide behind being concerned but that is not being concerned. The question is, if you are simply concerned about the person, why then do you get mad with them to the extent of ending the relationship? If you loved the person so much and what you had for them is unconditional love you wouldn't want to terminate the relationship for whatever reason.