There is a scripture in the Bible from I Corinthians 13:8, that very simply says that love never fails. Well, if love never fails, how is it that our marriages are failing to the rate of about one out of every two in America? Something about our love definition does not seem to match that of the Bible. This article will look at love and marriage from a more traditional view. That tradition is from the Bible. I am going into this discussion with a belief that the Bible is the truth and not a lie. If we can agree or even consider the Bible to be the Word of God (for the sake of this discussion) then I believe that we can come to a logical conclusion in this area of love and marriage.
When we look at our culture today, although people say that they love each other, we are more and more hard-pressed to find love that actually lasts. You may go into a marriage and survive one, five, or maybe even 10 years, but eventually there is a call for a divorce. That divorce may occur for many reasons. Some reasons may be justified due to infidelity or the abuse of a spouse or a child. However, more times than not, divorce seems to be rooted in some vague catch phrase like irreconcilable differences. What is that? What differences can't be reconciled if love is truly present? Jesus stated it this way: "Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends."
True love carries with it a strong commitment and even a sacrificial element. It carries a sense that I am in this relationship just as much for your well-being as I am for my own. If our love were based more on the love that Jesus describes, maybe our love would truly last. True love is selfless, but we have tried to define it as selfish. But God's kind of love, as demonstrated when Jesus died for us, is effective and powerful. Again, I believe the Bible to be true. Love never fails. But we fail when we choose to be self-centered and only interested in what makes us happy. Maybe the answer is simple. We should only use the term love when we are ready to commit and sacrifice on behalf of another. I believe that this would help us stay focused on the reality of a God kind of love that is deeper and stronger than what we usually refer to as love in many of our marriages. I still believe that the Word is true. Love never fails.
Selasa, 28 April 2009
Sabtu, 25 April 2009
Who Doesn't Love the Smell of a New Car?
Leasing has been lauded as your cheapest ticket to keep up with the industry's hottest vehicles and trends. The jury, however, is still out on leasing: with the industry long on hype and short on detail, it is difficult to distinguish between a genuinely good deal and a downright up-selling exercise.
Don't you just love the smell and feel of a new car? Me too. That's the reason why, when it comes to auto leases, I make certain that I completely grasp my options and if I should be leasing or purchasing my autos. I have learned through the years there are all kinds of hidden costs concerned in leasing a new automobile. Are you aware that there are underhand vehicle dealers out there who will blindly rip you off if you let them?
You need to check out all your options and read the contract carefully. Did you know that your standard payment could have been randomly made up by one of these dealers on the spot just by having a look at you and deciding how much cash they should charge you.
Reiterate and question everything on the lease form and ask in depth queries why you should be paying what you are. The small print can be your pal, use it against the automobile dealer to agree to a better deal some other place.
Lots of people get swayed by the concept of a lease and it's low payments. However, these same customers are living the high life till the day comes when they must eventually return their auto. When you purchase a vehicle, you own it, or at least the bank owns the note on it till you pay it off. Before a consumer can lease an automobile thru a dealer, many parties are involved to figure out the residual worth and the interest rate of the suggested vehicle lease. If the market is depressed at the end of a lease and the residual value is higher than the used auto is worth, then enormous losses result to the lending source.
The lessee/consumer leasing the automobile starts by agreeing to pay the lending source a once per month payment for the term of the lease. Behind the scens, the lender secretly decides on a loan rate it needs to return a profit to its backers or banks. A third-party firm, is usually employed to prepare the displays that are available to dealers subscribing across the nation. Included in this info is the list of many potential bank sources. The new auto dealer is just a facilitator between the lessee and the lending source. They have no faithfulness to their manufacturer in this regard and they can be the shopper's best pal by showing the shopper many leasing standard payments and interest rates from many lending sources.
When the lease is finalized, the money source pays the sale price; a portion is used to pay the dealer's cost and the balance is the dealer's profit.
As with all things in life, if you don't understand what you're doing, seek out advice before you sign on the dotted line.
Don't you just love the smell and feel of a new car? Me too. That's the reason why, when it comes to auto leases, I make certain that I completely grasp my options and if I should be leasing or purchasing my autos. I have learned through the years there are all kinds of hidden costs concerned in leasing a new automobile. Are you aware that there are underhand vehicle dealers out there who will blindly rip you off if you let them?
You need to check out all your options and read the contract carefully. Did you know that your standard payment could have been randomly made up by one of these dealers on the spot just by having a look at you and deciding how much cash they should charge you.
Reiterate and question everything on the lease form and ask in depth queries why you should be paying what you are. The small print can be your pal, use it against the automobile dealer to agree to a better deal some other place.
Lots of people get swayed by the concept of a lease and it's low payments. However, these same customers are living the high life till the day comes when they must eventually return their auto. When you purchase a vehicle, you own it, or at least the bank owns the note on it till you pay it off. Before a consumer can lease an automobile thru a dealer, many parties are involved to figure out the residual worth and the interest rate of the suggested vehicle lease. If the market is depressed at the end of a lease and the residual value is higher than the used auto is worth, then enormous losses result to the lending source.
The lessee/consumer leasing the automobile starts by agreeing to pay the lending source a once per month payment for the term of the lease. Behind the scens, the lender secretly decides on a loan rate it needs to return a profit to its backers or banks. A third-party firm, is usually employed to prepare the displays that are available to dealers subscribing across the nation. Included in this info is the list of many potential bank sources. The new auto dealer is just a facilitator between the lessee and the lending source. They have no faithfulness to their manufacturer in this regard and they can be the shopper's best pal by showing the shopper many leasing standard payments and interest rates from many lending sources.
When the lease is finalized, the money source pays the sale price; a portion is used to pay the dealer's cost and the balance is the dealer's profit.
As with all things in life, if you don't understand what you're doing, seek out advice before you sign on the dotted line.
Rabu, 22 April 2009
Love Spells - Will a Love Spell Really Work?
Love spells are very controversial, and rightfully so. The idea of love spells has been debated time and time again from wiccans, traditional witches, and other occultists.
Mostly everyone agrees that while casting a love spell to help you find the one you're meant to be with is fine, doing love spells on a specific person can cause some problems.
I'm sure you've heard of the old "tale" of the girl who puts a love spell on a specific boy, causing him to dangerously obsess over her. She then has a stalker on her hands. Of course this isn't always the case, and that doesn't happen every single time a specific love spell is cast. While one should always use caution when doing a love spell or having a love spell cast on their behalf, they don't always necessarily backfire.
For instance, if you already have a connection with someone, a love spell *may* be beneficial in "spicing things up more" so to speak. If you have already had someone that you miss and would like to reunite with, you could cast a love spell to help "rekindle the flame" if you indeed feel in your heart that you're meant to be with that person.
Of course you should always be careful when casting any love spells. I know if you've already been considering it, there's nothing that will stop you. Sometimes we all have to try and experiment anyway. Just make absolutely sure that you truly wish to be with that person. There are many free love spells available out there if you want to try them on your own, but sometimes a more experienced witch is needed to help you.
An experienced witch or other occultist already has spiritual connections. They may also be psychic as well, and can give you some insight on the love spells, and whether they should be cast.
Here are some tips to consider when casting love spells or having them cast on your behalf. The more you follow these tips, the better the outcome:
• Stay positive. It can be hard to sometimes, but you should associate only positive thoughts and emotions with your love interest. You do not want to send out mixed signals to the Universe.
• Don't become discouraged or frustrated. It will create negative energy, thus potential blocks.
• Try to visualize a happy outcome for the love spell at least a few minutes a day. Imagine being with your love interest. Try using all of your senses to get a clear picture as possible.
• Try not to obsess too much over the love spell and your love interest. When thinking about the situation and your love interest, only think positive. But at the same time, try to do other things throughout the day that make you happy
• Sometimes results from a love spell will happen during a time when you may least expect it. This is why it's very important not to dwell and obsess over the situation.
• Remember to thank the Universe and your God/Goddess often for giving you a chance to be with your love interest. Even if you're not with them physically yet, still let your God/Goddess know that you appreciate them. Have faith that the love magic will work.
Mostly everyone agrees that while casting a love spell to help you find the one you're meant to be with is fine, doing love spells on a specific person can cause some problems.
I'm sure you've heard of the old "tale" of the girl who puts a love spell on a specific boy, causing him to dangerously obsess over her. She then has a stalker on her hands. Of course this isn't always the case, and that doesn't happen every single time a specific love spell is cast. While one should always use caution when doing a love spell or having a love spell cast on their behalf, they don't always necessarily backfire.
For instance, if you already have a connection with someone, a love spell *may* be beneficial in "spicing things up more" so to speak. If you have already had someone that you miss and would like to reunite with, you could cast a love spell to help "rekindle the flame" if you indeed feel in your heart that you're meant to be with that person.
Of course you should always be careful when casting any love spells. I know if you've already been considering it, there's nothing that will stop you. Sometimes we all have to try and experiment anyway. Just make absolutely sure that you truly wish to be with that person. There are many free love spells available out there if you want to try them on your own, but sometimes a more experienced witch is needed to help you.
An experienced witch or other occultist already has spiritual connections. They may also be psychic as well, and can give you some insight on the love spells, and whether they should be cast.
Here are some tips to consider when casting love spells or having them cast on your behalf. The more you follow these tips, the better the outcome:
• Stay positive. It can be hard to sometimes, but you should associate only positive thoughts and emotions with your love interest. You do not want to send out mixed signals to the Universe.
• Don't become discouraged or frustrated. It will create negative energy, thus potential blocks.
• Try to visualize a happy outcome for the love spell at least a few minutes a day. Imagine being with your love interest. Try using all of your senses to get a clear picture as possible.
• Try not to obsess too much over the love spell and your love interest. When thinking about the situation and your love interest, only think positive. But at the same time, try to do other things throughout the day that make you happy
• Sometimes results from a love spell will happen during a time when you may least expect it. This is why it's very important not to dwell and obsess over the situation.
• Remember to thank the Universe and your God/Goddess often for giving you a chance to be with your love interest. Even if you're not with them physically yet, still let your God/Goddess know that you appreciate them. Have faith that the love magic will work.
Webkinz Toys - Why Do Children Can Love Webkinz Toys and Benefit From Them at the Same Time
Webkinz toys are a combination of a toy and a wonderful computer game for kids. For those who do not yet know, they can help you child learn the value of a dollar by allowing them to spend money while also earn money so that they have more to spend or save.
After your child receives a webkinz toy as a gift, they are given a secret code that allows them to securely sign on to the website. They are then awarded a set number of kinz dollars, then the fun begins.
The plush toys themselves, not only make great, lovable gifts for children but they also are affordable for most families. Most webkinz are inexpensive and easily found at many smaller stores: Collectible stores, small gift shops, and toy store are only some of the places that you are likely to find webkinz toys.
When looking at their website, you will see that unit of currency on the website is Kinzcash. KinzCash is virtual reality cash that your child can earn and spend. Kinzcash can be used for childlike things, KinzCash can also be used to care for their pets. They do this by buying furniture, other interesting accessories, and medicine when their pet gets sick.
This is the great benefit to your child of these toys, they are not advised to spend all their money on childish things, if there is not enough money left over, then they will not be able to properly care for their character if they become sick.
After your child receives a webkinz toy as a gift, they are given a secret code that allows them to securely sign on to the website. They are then awarded a set number of kinz dollars, then the fun begins.
The plush toys themselves, not only make great, lovable gifts for children but they also are affordable for most families. Most webkinz are inexpensive and easily found at many smaller stores: Collectible stores, small gift shops, and toy store are only some of the places that you are likely to find webkinz toys.
When looking at their website, you will see that unit of currency on the website is Kinzcash. KinzCash is virtual reality cash that your child can earn and spend. Kinzcash can be used for childlike things, KinzCash can also be used to care for their pets. They do this by buying furniture, other interesting accessories, and medicine when their pet gets sick.
This is the great benefit to your child of these toys, they are not advised to spend all their money on childish things, if there is not enough money left over, then they will not be able to properly care for their character if they become sick.
Sabtu, 18 April 2009
Rabu, 15 April 2009
The Shiniest Jewel - A Family Love Story by Mariam Henley
Being familiar with Ms. Henley's cartoons I couldn't wait to open up my advanced reading copy of "The Shiniest Jewel." For those not familiar with graphic novels this is a story with a complex plot that is illustrated in comic book format. It has a beginning, middle and end and it's aimed at mature readers.
This graphic memoir is a powerful look at one woman's emotional experience with international adoption. It also chronicles how the process affected her relationships with family and friends, especially her father.
Henley allows readers an honest look into her personal life without pulling any punches - not an easy thing to do. I empathized with her fears, becoming furious at the endless bureaucratic red tape and the waiting. But I also rejoiced when she brought home her beautiful new son. She confides in the reader as if we were old friends. I felt like I knew her.
Henley is a compelling storyteller and a talented cartoonist. I was hooked on page one. The narrative is heartrending without being sentimental; amusing and witty without being riotous. The drawings are the backbone of the book effectively conveying the substance of the story.
And it's an emotional story on many levels. I especially appreciated the graphic tribute to her father. In October 1944 he was a 24 year old navy lieutenant. The letter he wrote home when his three best friends were killed by a bursting shell had me in tears.
But rest assured it's not all sad. Henley's wry humor pervades. It's hard to convey the visual jokes but being a cat person my favorite was the sketch depicting the merger of two cat families - four cats being stuffed in a blender.
I read the story in one sitting and I know I'll be picking it up again for a second read. It will be for sale on September 15th and I highly recommend it.
This graphic memoir is a powerful look at one woman's emotional experience with international adoption. It also chronicles how the process affected her relationships with family and friends, especially her father.
Henley allows readers an honest look into her personal life without pulling any punches - not an easy thing to do. I empathized with her fears, becoming furious at the endless bureaucratic red tape and the waiting. But I also rejoiced when she brought home her beautiful new son. She confides in the reader as if we were old friends. I felt like I knew her.
Henley is a compelling storyteller and a talented cartoonist. I was hooked on page one. The narrative is heartrending without being sentimental; amusing and witty without being riotous. The drawings are the backbone of the book effectively conveying the substance of the story.
And it's an emotional story on many levels. I especially appreciated the graphic tribute to her father. In October 1944 he was a 24 year old navy lieutenant. The letter he wrote home when his three best friends were killed by a bursting shell had me in tears.
But rest assured it's not all sad. Henley's wry humor pervades. It's hard to convey the visual jokes but being a cat person my favorite was the sketch depicting the merger of two cat families - four cats being stuffed in a blender.
I read the story in one sitting and I know I'll be picking it up again for a second read. It will be for sale on September 15th and I highly recommend it.
Minggu, 12 April 2009
On Becoming Fearless - In Love, Work, and Life
About the Author: Arianna Huffington, is the co-founder and editor-in-chief of The Huffington Post, a nationally syndicated columnist, and author of eleven books. She is also co-host of "Left, Right & Center," public radio's popular political round table program.
In May 2005, she launched The Huffington Post, a news and blog site that has quickly become one of the most widely-read, linked to, and frequently-cited media brands on the Internet.
In 2006, she was named to the Time 100, Time Magazine's list of the world's 100 most influential people. Originally from Greece, she moved to England when she was 16 and graduated from Cambridge University with an M.A. in economics. At 21, she became president of the famed debating society, the Cambridge Union.
"On Becoming Fearless....in Love, Work and Life" is Huffington's most recent and most personal book to date, offering a road map for achieving fearlessness in every aspect of life, a straight-to the point manifesto on how to be bold, how to say what needs to be said and do what needs to be done in order to find the freedom to love, lead and succeed.
"Fanatics and Fools: The Game Plan for Winning Back America", offers a scathing portrait of our contemporary political landscape with a bold, inspiring and practical approach to restoring America to the promise envisioned by our greatest leaders. It was published in 2004.
In May 2005, she launched The Huffington Post, a news and blog site that has quickly become one of the most widely-read, linked to, and frequently-cited media brands on the Internet.
In 2006, she was named to the Time 100, Time Magazine's list of the world's 100 most influential people. Originally from Greece, she moved to England when she was 16 and graduated from Cambridge University with an M.A. in economics. At 21, she became president of the famed debating society, the Cambridge Union.
"On Becoming Fearless....in Love, Work and Life" is Huffington's most recent and most personal book to date, offering a road map for achieving fearlessness in every aspect of life, a straight-to the point manifesto on how to be bold, how to say what needs to be said and do what needs to be done in order to find the freedom to love, lead and succeed.
"Fanatics and Fools: The Game Plan for Winning Back America", offers a scathing portrait of our contemporary political landscape with a bold, inspiring and practical approach to restoring America to the promise envisioned by our greatest leaders. It was published in 2004.
Kamis, 09 April 2009
Understanding What Makes a Man Fall in Love With a Woman
The saying 'men are from Mars and women are from Venus' does seem to be absolutely right. It is a fact that men do think very differently from women. It becomes more difficult for you when you don't know how his thought process works when either you are in a relationship or you are looking for a relationship.
Often as a woman you have to be very flexible and have to make many changes in your life to accommodate yourself into his life. When it comes to understanding what makes a man fall in love with a woman you have to be aware of what qualities in a woman does capture a man's mind.
(1) Originality:
The first and foremost factor when considering what makes a man fall in love with a woman is originality. Men are rational enough to understand they don't need a perfect woman, but a woman who is perfect for them. That is why it becomes very important that you are genuine. If you put on a show just to impress him then he is bound to see the real you sometime sooner or later and you would have no chance of making up with him then. Men want women who are happy with themselves and don't have to show off to impress men.
Often we see women who are dating make the biggest mistake one can trying to find the answer to the question what makes a man fall in love with a woman. They try to go above and beyond what they are. The most common examples of this would be the women who dress up much differently than their usual dressing style when they are with their date just to impress him or trying to show the man that they are the homely kind by cooking meals for the men etc. But these tactics have a double disadvantage, first is that you will not be enjoying doing it and this may affect the relationship and the second is that you will have to carry on doing it for the rest of your life in that relationship. And of course sooner or later he would find out that it's not the real you. It is important that your present the true you to him. Even your flaws have to be visible because that is a part of your individuality.
(2) Confidence:
When you consider what makes a man fall in love with a woman even confidence becomes a big factor. The normal reaction of any woman when the man they are with looks at another woman is to be envious. Not being threatened by the presence of another woman is a quality that men really admire in a woman. This can also make you stand out from other women.
Rather than being irritated when he looks at another woman or talks about his ex girlfriend you can compliment about them and give him a feeling that you are not threatened by them. If you start thinking of you as a prize for him he is bound to feel that too.
Often as a woman you have to be very flexible and have to make many changes in your life to accommodate yourself into his life. When it comes to understanding what makes a man fall in love with a woman you have to be aware of what qualities in a woman does capture a man's mind.
(1) Originality:
The first and foremost factor when considering what makes a man fall in love with a woman is originality. Men are rational enough to understand they don't need a perfect woman, but a woman who is perfect for them. That is why it becomes very important that you are genuine. If you put on a show just to impress him then he is bound to see the real you sometime sooner or later and you would have no chance of making up with him then. Men want women who are happy with themselves and don't have to show off to impress men.
Often we see women who are dating make the biggest mistake one can trying to find the answer to the question what makes a man fall in love with a woman. They try to go above and beyond what they are. The most common examples of this would be the women who dress up much differently than their usual dressing style when they are with their date just to impress him or trying to show the man that they are the homely kind by cooking meals for the men etc. But these tactics have a double disadvantage, first is that you will not be enjoying doing it and this may affect the relationship and the second is that you will have to carry on doing it for the rest of your life in that relationship. And of course sooner or later he would find out that it's not the real you. It is important that your present the true you to him. Even your flaws have to be visible because that is a part of your individuality.
(2) Confidence:
When you consider what makes a man fall in love with a woman even confidence becomes a big factor. The normal reaction of any woman when the man they are with looks at another woman is to be envious. Not being threatened by the presence of another woman is a quality that men really admire in a woman. This can also make you stand out from other women.
Rather than being irritated when he looks at another woman or talks about his ex girlfriend you can compliment about them and give him a feeling that you are not threatened by them. If you start thinking of you as a prize for him he is bound to feel that too.
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