It's Just a Love Song

Picture this: you're on your way home from an incredible night-out with your girlfriends. All night long they have been telling you that you are better off without him, that you deserve so much better, that a woman like you deserves to have all the good things in life served to you in a silver platter. Of course all of the things they said made you feel better and you suddenly find yourself agreeing with them, and from now on you are never going to even think about your ex ever again.

You get into your car, turn the radio on, and of the thousands or millions of songs that the DJ could play, he plays this one. This song that you and your ex loved so much that you sing it together, without caring if you are singing the right notes. You wonder if the universe is trying to send you a message. Suddenly, you find yourself missing him with only one thought in mind: "I want my ex-boyfriend back."

A lot of things, not just love songs, will make you want to get your ex back. There are places that the two of you always used to go to, movies you have seen together, his favorite color, his favorite animal. And the list goes on. There is nothing wrong with wanting to get your ex back. Sure, your friends are right when they say all those positive and ego-boosting things, but in the end it is you and only you who can and will decide which man you want to spend the rest of your life with.

So go on, keep listening to the songs you and your ex like. Keep looking at the pictures of the two of you, think of him as often as you'd like. This way, you could figure out what you really want. Do you really want to get your ex back this instant, or do you want enjoy being single again before you want him back in your life? These can be very helpful questions that can help you figure out how to get your ex back, or how you will get your ex to want you back.