Senin, 22 Desember 2008

For the Love of Your Child

If you are a new parent or a parent of many, take a minute to remind yourself that you want to continue to show your love to your child.

Make and set time for your children, if it is just reading. Children love the tone of your voice. This is your quiet time.

Always use positive words. Give confidence to your child with phrases such as "You can do it!", "Good job!" This will give your child sense of worth by praising and this will show the child that you are interested in what your child is saying.

Examine your child's activities and provide methods daily. Keeping meals at regular times, and bedtimes on a schedule will teach children good habits. Make routines and traditions.

Pay attention to what your child is doing. Include your child. Share things with him/her. Share your child's small triumphs. They may be little to you, but very big to them.

Look at your child when you are talking. Give them that personal attention. Share with them their thoughts. Sharing will allow them to come to you when they have a problem.

Always set a good example at home and in public with words like "I'm sorry," "please," and "thank you." At all times, avoid name-calling or unkind words when you become angry with your child. Steer away from tension.

Affection is the best gesture ever for your child. Give your child a hug, kiss or cuddle. Do not forget to say, "I love you."
Remember, love and happiness.

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