Get Your Ex Love Back

With the right methods you can get help with getting your ex back into you life. Being heartbroken is so difficult and the emotions we experience are unbelievably painful. At this point in people´s lives they often realize what a huge mistake breaking up was.

Now, realizing this, you must give yourself and your ex girlfriend some time to think things over and cool down a bit. With all the painful emotions you are not thinking rationally so it is best to get your thoughts together. Since you broke up in the first place there must have been something not quite perfect in your relationship. Take this time to think about what went wrong. And then you can think about getting you ex girlfriend back.

After your thinking period you must be strong and resist the urge to call her. Don´t even think about text messaging her. And even if you´d love nothing more in the world than to send her chocolate or flowers you have to be strong and do no such thing. If you are serious about getting your ex girlfriend back you must avoid contacting her.

With that being said your ex girlfriend will start wondering why you are not behaving like a child. This will get her to call you to see how you are doing and if you still care. Now, at this point you have to stay focused, you do not want to lose your cool so you must act politely and together. Tell her you need time to think things over and you will call her back in a few days and you can talk more then. It is essential to getting your ex girlfriend back that the first contact after the break up is in this manner.

The reason for this somewhat "cold" response on your behalf is to get your ex to realize that she might lose you for good. She will realize her mistakes and want you back. Just remember, in your thinking period you learned something about your relationship with her, what went wrong, and for your relationship to be healthy and happy you have to discuss this with her and find away for you to make it work this time.