Are You Desperate For Love?

Everyone craves to love and be loved in return. This is a basic essential of life. But how much do we love ourselves? How often do we acknowledge the qualities that we have instead of desiring to be someone else? Some people think that the only way to be happy is when people love them and accept them is not true. Love is like a mirror. It is a reflection of who we are. So if you don't love yourself, you wont be able to love someone else and be loved in return.

Sometimes we go to the wrong places searching desperately for love and end up getting hurt or heartbroken. Some have pre-conceived ideas of what love should be and when they get hold of it, they cling tenaciously to it. This is desperation! And it doesn't stay. It doesn't last because desperation has a way of pushing everything it touches away especially love. The things you are desperate about sense it and runaway. So stop being desperate. Be gentle with life

There is a secret to attraction and that secret deals with been able to appreciate yourself first. In appreciating yourself you must begin to see yourself in a different light; begin to act, sound and look good and be confident of yourself. When you begin to feel good about yourself, you radiate a form of energy that enables other people to see you in the light in which you see yourself.

One simple truth about love is that you can't make people stay. You can't force them to love you. You can't even make them change their minds about the things that are important to them; the things they want more than they want you. But you can be happy loving yourself and accepting others as they are because Love is in you; in your smiles, your laughter, your cares, your genuine concerns, it is all around you! It is your passion and your strength. It is life itself. It is also your genuineness towards other people.So don't worry about been loved. Just love yourself. Give yourself a treat. You deserve it!